I’m used to driving in the West. Long stretches of empty Nevada roads, the Pacific Coast highway, and FREEways make road tripping through the west gorgeous and easy. I was a little out of my comfort zone driving through Philadelphia, Boston, and D.C. But after driving the wrong way down a one-way street in downtown Baltimore (down Lexington no less, to the tune of “giiiiirl, you so dummmmb”), I was ready to give up. Plus, we were headed to New York next. I wasn’t about to compete with crazy cab drivers, bikers, and buses. Even my anti-public-transportation traveling companion agreed that it was time to take the train. And the subway.

So we stayed in New Jersey. Taking the Amtrak and/or subway into New York from Jersey isn’t for every traveler or every trip. When I mentioned my bridge and tunnel plan to my Manhattan-based brother in law he gave a slight shutter and backed away repulsed. But whatever. I liked staying in Jersey.

If you are looking for a quick weekend vacation in the city that never sleeps, bite the bullet and get a $400 hotel room. Or pitch a tent by the JFK airport. But if you are just passing though New York on a road trip, staying in New Jersey is the way to go.  Here are some transportation tips:

Getting around New Jersey: Trust your GPS. Don’t look at a map, just blindly follow the directions. I had received this advice prior to entering the “Garden” State, but I still typed an address into my GPS, looked at the map, decided I could get there a better way, and promptly drove around in confused circles. Roads don’t connect where you think they do, and you can’t turn left anywhere in Jersey. So even if your GPS sends you on a six mile circle to go half a mile down the street, just do it.

Getting to New York via Amtrak: I was pleasantly surprised by all the nice places to stay in New Jersey. New Brunswick was a cute town, as was Edison. We stayed at the Marriott near the MetroPark train station (120 Wood Ave, Islin, NJ 08830) and paid less than $10 to park there for the whole day. A roundtrip train ticket to New York Penn Station was $20. Tickets are easily purchased at a kiosk in the train station. You can check amtrak’s website for schedules, or you can just show up whenever you feel like it. Trains leave at least once every thirty minutes. The train ride is forty minutes long.

Getting to New York via subway: Yet there is a cheaper way to do things. On our last day in New York/New Jersey, we were planning on heading up to Boston that evening, so we changed our traveling strategy. After checking out of our New Jersey digs, we drove up to the Bronx and for $11 we parked at Putnam Gardens Parking (3815 Putnam Ave West, Bronx, NY 10463) which was two blocks away from the Van Cortlandt Park subway stop (Line 1). Then for just over $2, we took the subway into the city. The ride down to Wall Street took just over an hour. I wasn’t quite as comfortable as the train, but when you start at the northernmost stop, you are pretty much guaranteed to secure a seat on the subway.

Besides, any ride is more comfortable that frantically pulling a U-turn across a crowded one-way street in Baltimore.